Sun 30 Mar 2008
I surely hope it’s not going….
My mother saved this article for me.
Common sense was a long time coming
In Crestwood, a Tinley Park mom had child endangerment and peace office obstruction charges dropped. What did she do on December 8, 2007 that caused a community service officer to raise the possibility of Treffly Coyne being in jail away from her family for a year? She parked her vehicle in front of Walmart, took out 3 kids while leaving the 2 year old to sleep in the car seat with doors locked and alarm engaged. She then walked a short distance away and within eye shot, so the older kids could drop money into the Salvation Army bucket. By the time the husband got to the scene of the crime donation, the sergeant who was dating the community service officer, had Ms. Coyne in the back of the police car in handcuffs. Merry Christmas, kids.
"It’s hard to be living 97 days under the scrutiny of being called a child abuser when no child was abused," Coyne told reporters Thursday. "It parallels, I put my child in the car seat and unload the groceries, and I take a cart back to the corral at the grocery store. I know plenty of moms and people who do that."
Here, in Illinois and likely elsewhere in the US, you’d better be looking over your shoulder constantly, for more than one reason.
Dana has an interesting question on Principled Discovery:
In the section marked Changing Attitudes, besides some historical basis of authorities turning their heads at family abuses, Dana notes this too:
Now we recognize child abuse as a real threat and feel responsible to report it. Professionals are now bound by law to notify CPS, encouraging some to make the call “just to be sure” and more to protect themselves should anything ever happen. But the idea of abuse is changing. No longer is strictly that “which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation, or an act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm.” It has been broadened to include parenting which is not necessarily dangerous, but merely uncomfortable for the child. I increasingly hear the word used for parenting practices with which society, or even just that particular person, happens to disagree.
And it is also beginning to be used to describe educational choices by parents outside the mainstream….
For the times they are a’changin Homeschoolers aren’t going away. Maybe the new target for those who dislike the freedoms of those pesky homeschoolers is to aim and fire at what homeschoolers teach their children.
Following that, Sunniemom had a great post about Nothing to hide- Nothing to fear
Folks who oppose home education often express the idea that governments and institutions are what make our lives productive and fulfilling, when it is liberty that feeds our hopes and dreams. They want to accuse home educators of being fearful, when it is educrats, union officials and politicians who are desperate to retain control and the money that goes along with that authority over our most vulnerable citizens- children.
Sunniemom supplied this link in her post: If you have nothing to hide, you have everything to fear
The first thing one must realize is that it does happen here. Government abuse of power happens. That they’re American bureaucrats doesn’t make them any less prone to abusing whatever power and authority they have been granted or have seized for themselves. The long chain of abuses stretches from the birth of the nation right through to the present day, and from the bottom to the top. Open any newspaper from any day of any year and you’ll find at least one, if not several.
There is great outrage and conspiratorial suggestions over State Department employees taking a peek at presidential candidate passport information. My Senator’s dismay and call for a "full and thorough investigation" over this breech of his personal information is understandable. But he’s fortunate….when files of high profile people like him are opened, an alert is set off to higher ups. I don’t think that John and Jane Doe have the same protections. When Pat’s veteran information was stolen a couple of years ago, it wasn’t such a big deal.
The essence of Government is power; and power, lodged as it must be in human hands, will ever be liable to abuse. — James Madison
Did I mention that in my small town, the largest single employer is the school?
March 30th, 2008 at 11:46 am
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March 30th, 2008 at 9:33 pm
Hi, Susan,
You did it again! I keep meaning to comment on the richness of your posts, but you send me to so many interesting new places that sometimes I get sidetracked and forget to come back and say thank you. This time I remembered. I found a great post on a blog I read semi-regularly, and I found two more great blogs. So thank you. Thank you, very much!
March 31st, 2008 at 6:41 am
You’re welcome, Elisheva. In this post, I used a lot of other folks’ posts. Lot easier (and generally more coherent) that way.
April 1st, 2008 at 7:42 am
We just got back from a longish roadtrip, with kids cooped up in the car for many hours. At a gas station in Indiana, my husband had to remove our 7 y.o. daughter from the car and have some firm words words with her about her behavior, which, frankly, was endangering our safety in the car. To keep her from running out into traffic, he kept a firm grip on her forearm, as she struggled to get away, twisting her body and shaking her head violently.
What would this look like to anyone who might have been watching?
It looked alarming enough to me, and I asked my husband to get back in the car with her. No sense putting yourself on the line…
But he wasn’t doing anything wrong!
April 1st, 2008 at 9:16 am
Hey Aunt Susan,
You might find this entertaining:
http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/nationworld/chi-worst-teachersmar31 ,0,6602366.story
April 1st, 2008 at 11:46 am
Ouch, Jase, did you have one in mind for payoff?
Been there and done that, Justyna. We’re having this conversation about most parents really knowing what’s going to work best for their kids on the IL Homeschool Freedom Watch list. (Whether it’s at a gas station or in our home.)
There was an article about homeschoolers needing to get eye exams now too.
State requires eye exams for kids
I just had our kids checked out with the opthamologist last year. All on my own; w/o being told to do so by the IL government. I don’t have them on our eye insurance plan this year and they’re supposed to be in 9th grade in school terms this fall.
How crazy is this getting anyway? Besides the fact that they have 20/20 vision and the doc said he didn’t need to see them any time soon.
April 4th, 2008 at 8:22 am
“What constitutes abuse?”
This reminds me of a similar trend in public schools to have zero tolerance for certain activities, which often becomes zero intelligence.
April 4th, 2008 at 4:07 pm
Treffly Coyne is a fine mother who happened to be out on an excursion planned by her children to donate to charity. A lesson we would all do better to be taught by her kids. Unfortunately the government, very concerned about the welfare of her child stepped in. Somehow the officer saw that a sleeping two year old in a warm and safe locked car with the alarm activated would be better off without the mother who cares for her.
The police would not listen to her story, they refused to listen to witnesses, they did not investigate by going into the store to look at the security video.
Instead, they arrested Treffly Coyne, took custody of her two year old child, broke up her family, and most disturbing, the police abandoned three little girls at the Walmart… left them to their own luck, crying on the curb.
All because the government decided Treffly Coynes family needed its “protection.”
Her children were never in any danger until the representatives of the government showed up.
The police chief of Crestwood, Timothy Sulikowski, knew that there was no evidence that Ms. Coyne had done anything wrong, yet he still decided she needed to be charged and prosecuted.
TO COVER UP THE HORRIBLE MISTAKES AND MISCONDUCT OF THE CRESTWOOD POLICE.
For 97 days she was labled a child abuser by the state, investigated by the DCFS or CPS, paid expensive legal bills and suffered the public humiliation brought on by the unsubstantiated charges of the Crestwood Police.
Even when the prosecutor dropped the charges for lack of evidence, the police chief and Mayor Robert Stranczek continued to make public statements against Treffly Coyne.
Treffly Coyne is now suing the Village of Crestwood, police officers James Ciukaj, Forrest Wondolowski and Angel Brudnicki in federal court.
She would have preferred to have won in criminal court.
All she asked for was an apology and that the charges would be dropped. Thousands of dollars later, and hundreds of thousands of posts on the internet, the Crestwood Police cannot even give her that.
A terrible mistake was made that night at the Walmart and the Crestwood Police and Mayor Stranczek refuse to acknowlege it. Until they do, all citizens, all families in Crestwood are in danger of these kinds of police abuse.
Her fight is not over. The federal Judge will hear the case and has the power to direct the Crestwood Police to make changes in their policies and procedures.
Hopefully she will prevail in her fight, which is a fight for all of our civil rights and her case will create stronger boundaries between the family and the police.
It was wrong to arrest that mother and subject her children to witness in terror the actions of the police.
What is more wrong is that the woman has to fight such wrongdoing in federal court.
A victory for Treffly Coyne will be a victory for all American Families. The civil rights she is fighting for our your civil rights as well.
April 5th, 2008 at 9:50 am
Best of wishes for Treffly Coyne and her family. Looks like they picked the wrong mom to mess with…
Henry, I agree with your concern. Illinois has a bill to let teachers and public school authorities search any student’s belongings, et al w/o notice or permission. Do you suppose they’re teaching the Bill of Rights, such as the 4th Amendment to kids too? I think not, in looking at the news and the dropout rate. It’s too bad.
April 11th, 2008 at 1:09 am
In my capacity, (Police Officer) I’ve seen both sides of the child protective services here in Alaska. Definately more bad than good has been done by the “Office of Children’s Services”. I think most police officers out there have more common sense than the disgrace mentioned in this post. However, I think it’s a sign of the times, police departments are being more politically correct these days, less inclined to lean toward the conservative side of things, hiring people with less street smarts and more college educated folks (not that there’s anything wrong with that). Let’s face it though, when some nutjob is beating down your door in the middle of the night, would you rather have some rough and tumble cop come to the call or some cop with a doctorate in criminal justice who wants to talk things through with the criminal? Things in this country are changing…
I remember not too long ago when an OCS worker told me to charge a father with assault for spanking his son. Beware folks, there are wolves out there who are in positions of power and they despise the traditional family… God Bless.